this might seem like a weird post but i'm planning and while i'm afraid to discuss this with anyone i hope that if i were to die before doing so that my family would search through my site discover my blog in time and honor my wishes a funeral is not necessary but i know that some will insist but please honor this wish family only mine no friends obviously yes to rachel, wyatt, and maya but no one else on her side of the family that's it i wish to be cremated not buried the next part is a work in progress but i felt the need to post this just in case i die before i finalize my plans just do your best i don't want any of my ashes to remain in the united states i don't want any of my family to hold onto them i've researched and you can take ashes on a plane i won't put you out i'll leave enough money for one of you to make the trip to do so i'm not completely certain where yet it will most likely be in japan somewh